Tuesday 6 August 2013

Breaking up is the hardest thing to do

So my relationship of nearly 2 years has come to an end recently, so i thought i'd make this post about break up's. Breaking up is Moer hard and it feels like a huge metal ball has hit you. The minute it happens 100's of people rush to your aid to tell you how things will get better, and oh he doesnt deserve you and blah blah blah. REALITY is: Its hard and in the first moments after its happened, Nothing or no one will make it feel better and you will not want to feel better. So allow yourself to grieve and cry, DONT bottle up your emotions, Let it out, whether you rant to a friend or a piece of paper. Also make sure that you focus on YOU time, Do long bubble baths, rock the music in the car, Laugh, Giggle and focus on the things that can make you happpy. Trust me its not easy, i loved this man with every bone in my body and wanted to marry him. The breakup hit me hard but i know that i will get through this and it will be worth it when that day comes. So if your dealing with a breakup always remember to keep your head held high